Dude, 35yo women fuck like beasts, I don't know what you're talking about. 22 year olds can have firmer curves, yes, but have no idea what they're doing in the sack.
Dating is the absolute worst when your "appropriate" age range is women in their late 20s. They're old enough to want to stop their wild partying phase in favor of fast track marriage, but not old enough to have a divorce under their belt and gotten that out of their system.
I'm more or less convinced that these guys are so removed from normal human interaction that they don't actually enjoy sex on a physical level. Having sex/girlfriends is entirely about improving their image and feeding their ego, because inside they feel like weak little girls who will never measure up to the men around them.